๐ช How do Americans discipline their children? ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์ธ์ ์๋
๋ฅผ ์ด๋ป๊ฒ ํ์กํ ๊น์?
Parenting in America has changed a lot over the years. In the past, it used to be quite common to spank children. Most parents would just use their hand and give the child one quick spank on their bottom. Some parents were more aggressive. ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์ ์ก์ ๋ฐฉ์์ ์๋
์ ๊ฑธ์ณ ๋ง์ ๋ณํ๊ฐ ์์์ต๋๋ค. ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ์๋ ์ฒด๋ฒ์ด ๊ฝค ํํ ์ผ์ด์์ด์. ๋๋ถ๋ถ ๋ถ๋ชจ๊ฐ ์์ด์ ์๋ฉ์ด๋ฅผ ์์ผ๋ก ๊ฐ๋ณ๊ฒ ๋๋ฆฌ๋ ์ ๋์๋๋ฐ, ์ข ๋ ๊ณผ๊ฒฉํ๊ฒ ํ๋ ๊ฒฝ์ฐ๋ ๋๋ฌ ์์์ต๋๋ค.
Besides spanking, many parents also put their kids in a โtime-out.โ This means that the parents would send their kids to a quiet area where they should think about what they had done wrong. Typically, after a time-out, a child is expected to apologize for what they have done wrong.
์ฒด๋ฒ ์ธ์๋ โํ์์์โ์ ํ์ฉํ๊ธฐ๋ ํ์ด์. ํ์์์์ ๋ถ๋ชจ๊ฐ ์์ด๋ฅผ ์กฐ์ฉํ ๊ณต๊ฐ์ผ๋ก ๋ณด๋ด ์์ ์ด ์๋ชปํ ์ผ์ ๋ํด ์๊ฐํ ์๊ฐ์ ์ฃผ๋ ํ์ก๋ฒ์ด์์. ๊ทธ๋ ๊ฒ ์๊ฐ์ ์ฃผ๊ณ ๋์ ์์ด ์ค์ค๋ก ์๋ชป๋ ํ๋์ ๋ํด ์ฌ๊ณผํ๋๋ก ํฉ๋๋ค.
Some people think that parents have gotten too soft these days. This means that they donโt discipline their children enough. Many parents believe in talking to their kids about what they did wrong. They would rather listen to their feelings or give them a chance to calm down rather than spank them or punish them immediately.
์์ฆ ๋ถ๋ชจ๋ค์ด ๋๋ฌด ๋ฌด๋ฅด๋ค๊ณ ๋งํ๋ ์ฌ๋๋ค๋ ์์ด์. ์ด๋ ์์ด๋ฅผ ์ ๋๋ก ํ์กํ์ง ๋ชปํ๋ค๋ ์๋ฏธ์ด์ฃ . (์์ฆ์๋) ๋ง์ ๋ถ๋ชจ๊ฐ ์์ด์ ์๋ชป์ ๋ํด ๋ํ ๋๋๋ ๊ฑธ ์ค์ํ๊ฒ ์๊ฐํด์. ์์ด๋ฅผ ๋๋ฆฌ๊ฑฐ๋ ์ฆ์ ํผ๋ด๊ธฐ๋ณด๋ค๋ ์์ด์ ๊ฐ์ ์ ๊ท ๊ธฐ์ธ์ด๊ณ ์์ด์๊ฒ ์ง์ ํ ๊ธฐํ๋ฅผ ์ฃผ๊ณ ์ ํฉ๋๋ค.
There has been a lot of research done on parenting and many psychologists have a lot of opinions. I think there are many parenting styles nowadays, but those have been the most common in recent years. ์ง๊ธ๊น์ง ์ก์์ ๋ํ ๋ง์ ์ฐ๊ตฌ๊ฐ ์งํ๋์ด ์๊ณ ์ฌ๋ฆฌํ์๋ค๋ ๋ค์ํ ์๊ฒฌ์ ์ ์ํ๊ณ ์์ด์. ์ค๋๋ ๋ค์ํ ์ก์ ์คํ์ผ์ด ์๊ธด ํ์ง๋ง ์ต๊ทผ ๋ช ๋
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